My kindda guy

Truth be told most women don’t want a man they can walk all over. What is the point of having a partner if he is just going to agree with everything you say? Might as well get a child who will simply take instructions. On the other hand no one wants someone who will disagree with everything they say either. We need partners who can balance things out and therefore should be able to say “no” when necessary and “yes” where applicable.

Screw independence and what not a man still needs to be a man and thus needs some sense of authority. I’m a very tiny woman who can stand her own when need be but I want a real man, someone who can “put me in my place” so to speak. There is nothing sexier than a dominant man…in all ways possible >>wink<<.

Oops

“That awkward moment...” when I eagerly greet an ex while walking with my current boyfriend.  Thank God I’ve got a mature and understanding guy by my side coz Lord knows if the tables were turned I would have walked back and asked to be taken home, without giving anybody a chance to explain.

So as I embarrassingly tell my cousin about the incident she quickly came up with an excuse “ah if he (my current partner) had a problem you would have just told him that you were showing him off”. Doubt I would have thought of that but luckily enough I didn’t need an excuse; I was merely greeting someone I haven’t seen in a while, ex of nie.
(image by Francis Bea http://www.digitaltrends.com/social-media/infographic-social-medias-influence-on-infidelity/)

Oh no

So like my sister and her husband just came back home from a date, now it beats me why they came here when they could have went straight to their place. Judging by the time they came back it must have been fun and usually after a steamy date the next best thing is to have steamy sex.

The problem is my room is right next door my sisters, we don’t share a wall but that won’t make it any less traumatising. Not that it would be my first time hearing them doing the “hanky panky” but I sure as hell don’t want to hear it again.

So just in case I hear one sound… I’ve got my earphones on standby.
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