sex while on ur periods

Mother Nature can be really mean if she wants too. I mean for most girls they are horniest before or during their period and what are the chances of one having sex while on their menstrual cycle?

Now I know of someone who doesn’t mind at all. He is the freak of all freaks. Nothing will stop him from getting “laid”, not even a little blood. In fact he says “when I order a steak I never specify if I want it rare, well done or medium rare, so why should I when it comes to a girls virgina?”

Now I’m known for being up for anything sexually but this is beyond me. Truth is I have been caught in such situations but I would never go for it I’m sorry, I’m sure waiting a couple more days won’t hurt. Coming to that decision sure was difficult though my head and body were telling me two different things but I couldn’t give in.

Ladies and Gents (you matter too in this one) would you go for it? Honestly?

I kissed a girl and i liked it

Throwing a big 21^st birthday party seems to be the in thing among young South Africans.  A very close friend of mine entered her adulthood in style by having a night out with friends at a restaurant out in sandton. Now believe me when I say she went all out, guests were welcomed with a shot of any choice and later treated to a meaty platter.

Me being “Miss Party”, her date for the night, I had to make sure I was noticed but not in such a way that would steal the spotlight from the lady of the night. So in true Thlogi style I put on a pair of red bunny ears, which wasn’t so bad considering her dress was black and red.  I have been waiting for this night for months now so best believe I was all moneyed up. But with all that money and so many drinks to choose from, I was feeling a bit tipsy sooner than expected.

Apparently alcohol brings out someone’s true personality, and well for me that would mean bringing out my sexual being.  Nothing new to those who know me but what was very unusual was the fact that I found myself kissing a girl (and I liked it lol). Now I don’t know if I would have done the same in my right sober mind or not.  You can imagine how the guys around us were so excited, so excited in fact they took pictures and of course the more I heard the crowd going crazy the more I enjoyed the activity.

The best part about it all was that there wasn’t any awkwardness about it afterwards. We are still friends and we still have a good laugh at the matter now and again, question is, can we take it any further than just a kiss...

Phone issues

Funny how once upon a time I disliked the Iphone. I just didn’t get how one can “buy”
almost everything on a phone. It sounded even more absurd when the blackberry
was all everyone spoke about and owned due to the BIS. It just sounded
impractical but at the same time I didn’t/don’t like the blackberry either,
every Tom Dick and Harry owns some sort of blackberry so no not for me.

I’ve been without a phone for about six months now and trust me I see the world in a
whole new light now. The issue is not getting a phone; the issue is getting a
phone that I want. So I mentioned I disliked the Iphone because it was
expensive, non user friendly and even more expensive to maintain. But now it’s
all I’m talking about and I’m speaking a whole different story now. I would
actually like to own one. Now I won’t lie I still think it’s expensive and I’ve
got no idea how it works but I think those are the very things that I want it
for. I mean if I can’t use it then majority of my friends won’t be able to
either, meaning my phone will stay on my persons and secondly it’s expensive so
that should say something about me right?

Trying to get this phone has been a nightmare; apparently there is some sort of
shortage in the country. I’ve been everywhere possible- vodaworld, sandton, the
airport, boulders u name it. I’ve even had friends check for me in surrounding
areas where they live. Every time I go enquire about it it’s either out of
stock or they just sold the last one. I was so disappointed yesterday when I
went to boulders application forms and cash in hand ready to purchase the phone
when I was told “the last one had just been sold” earlier that morning.

My whole day was spoilt and I couldn’t wait till I went back home just to vent
about it. I swear just as I walked into the kitchen door, tears rolled down my
eyes. I cried like I had just been dumped, it sure felt like it... Now as if
that wasn’t enough later that night I had to study for a test the next morning
(which I later found out was cancelled) but couldn’t because my eyes were
swollen from the crying and all I did was cry some more, until I eventually
fell asleep.

Now I don’t know if some higher power is tiring to test my determination in getting
this phone or am I just not meant to have it. Maybe its karma because I was
against the phone before but whatever it is, I’m not giving up just yet.