sex while on ur periods

Mother Nature can be really mean if she wants too. I mean for most girls they are horniest before or during their period and what are the chances of one having sex while on their menstrual cycle?

Now I know of someone who doesn’t mind at all. He is the freak of all freaks. Nothing will stop him from getting “laid”, not even a little blood. In fact he says “when I order a steak I never specify if I want it rare, well done or medium rare, so why should I when it comes to a girls virgina?”

Now I’m known for being up for anything sexually but this is beyond me. Truth is I have been caught in such situations but I would never go for it I’m sorry, I’m sure waiting a couple more days won’t hurt. Coming to that decision sure was difficult though my head and body were telling me two different things but I couldn’t give in.

Ladies and Gents (you matter too in this one) would you go for it? Honestly?

I kissed a girl and i liked it

Throwing a big 21^st birthday party seems to be the in thing among young South Africans.  A very close friend of mine entered her adulthood in style by having a night out with friends at a restaurant out in sandton. Now believe me when I say she went all out, guests were welcomed with a shot of any choice and later treated to a meaty platter.

Me being “Miss Party”, her date for the night, I had to make sure I was noticed but not in such a way that would steal the spotlight from the lady of the night. So in true Thlogi style I put on a pair of red bunny ears, which wasn’t so bad considering her dress was black and red.  I have been waiting for this night for months now so best believe I was all moneyed up. But with all that money and so many drinks to choose from, I was feeling a bit tipsy sooner than expected.

Apparently alcohol brings out someone’s true personality, and well for me that would mean bringing out my sexual being.  Nothing new to those who know me but what was very unusual was the fact that I found myself kissing a girl (and I liked it lol). Now I don’t know if I would have done the same in my right sober mind or not.  You can imagine how the guys around us were so excited, so excited in fact they took pictures and of course the more I heard the crowd going crazy the more I enjoyed the activity.

The best part about it all was that there wasn’t any awkwardness about it afterwards. We are still friends and we still have a good laugh at the matter now and again, question is, can we take it any further than just a kiss...

Phone issues

Funny how once upon a time I disliked the Iphone. I just didn’t get how one can “buy”
almost everything on a phone. It sounded even more absurd when the blackberry
was all everyone spoke about and owned due to the BIS. It just sounded
impractical but at the same time I didn’t/don’t like the blackberry either,
every Tom Dick and Harry owns some sort of blackberry so no not for me.

I’ve been without a phone for about six months now and trust me I see the world in a
whole new light now. The issue is not getting a phone; the issue is getting a
phone that I want. So I mentioned I disliked the Iphone because it was
expensive, non user friendly and even more expensive to maintain. But now it’s
all I’m talking about and I’m speaking a whole different story now. I would
actually like to own one. Now I won’t lie I still think it’s expensive and I’ve
got no idea how it works but I think those are the very things that I want it
for. I mean if I can’t use it then majority of my friends won’t be able to
either, meaning my phone will stay on my persons and secondly it’s expensive so
that should say something about me right?

Trying to get this phone has been a nightmare; apparently there is some sort of
shortage in the country. I’ve been everywhere possible- vodaworld, sandton, the
airport, boulders u name it. I’ve even had friends check for me in surrounding
areas where they live. Every time I go enquire about it it’s either out of
stock or they just sold the last one. I was so disappointed yesterday when I
went to boulders application forms and cash in hand ready to purchase the phone
when I was told “the last one had just been sold” earlier that morning.

My whole day was spoilt and I couldn’t wait till I went back home just to vent
about it. I swear just as I walked into the kitchen door, tears rolled down my
eyes. I cried like I had just been dumped, it sure felt like it... Now as if
that wasn’t enough later that night I had to study for a test the next morning
(which I later found out was cancelled) but couldn’t because my eyes were
swollen from the crying and all I did was cry some more, until I eventually
fell asleep.

Now I don’t know if some higher power is tiring to test my determination in getting
this phone or am I just not meant to have it. Maybe its karma because I was
against the phone before but whatever it is, I’m not giving up just yet.

Alcohol Time...

A while ago, a couple of
friends and I decided to go out for dinner, which quickly turned out to be a
party as we ended up club hopping. With it being December and all (tis the
season to be jolly after all), money was no problem because (we all know we
feel entitled to our parents bonuses, but we do don’t we?). Everyone, who knows
me, knows that unlike my physic, my mouth is quite the opposite, so I went on
about how I can handle alcohol and how it doesn’t affect me like most girls.
Having the type of friends that I have they had to see it to believe so we
pulled out the big guns and bought some Courvoisier and Sprite. Now mind you
this is not your ordinary alcohol, which I was soon to discover. I was drinking
it as if it was water; you know trying to show off. And obviously I was drunk
way sooner than later, but I had this on lock down, I was the one who boldly
stated my difference from other girls so I wasn’t about to let myself or my
reputation down.
Now I don’t know if it’s just me but a little
alcohol in the system gets me a bit horny. Just to my convenience or dismay
rather, my ex was there and did a diligent job of keeping my glass topped up (what
a gentleman, hahah). We sat together for the rest of the night and we
reminisced on our past, and then there it was... the same look he gave when we
dated and before. I couldn’t be making this up, not with all the alcohol in my
blood...this guy was still head over heels in love with me! How could I not
give in? Before I knew it we were in the “sack” together. So yes...I might not
be like ‘most girls’ I’m a naughty girl! Don’t get me wrong I’m not blaming him or the
alcohol because I know he wasn’t head over hills in love...my blood was
boiling, I allowed myself to be caught in the moment. And yes he lives three
houses away and best believe he uses every chance he gets to remind me of that
night.

Damn but my parents are getting old by 8:15 they were both in bed...does this mean i can sneak out and go partying, i mean the car has petrol, i have the car keys and house keys plus im single what more do i want? hmmmm....someone to accompany me perhaps oh well

Thlogi here 3rd year Journalism student and very excited about this year (for some odd reason) anyway hope i dont bore yall i sure will try keep everything as interesting as possible.
lets get the conversation going!!